Do you want me 2 check on your girlfriend or boyfriend here?

Post by **TomSpringall** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 1:56 pm

I'm bored so if anyone abroad wants me to quickly check up on a girlfriend or boyfriend, [ Edited by Admin ]
But only in hua hin cause i don't fancy traveling anywhere and nothing too serious.
Tom.

Post by **TomSpringall** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:02 pm

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Post by **Lev** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:39 pm

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Post by **lomuamart** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:41 pm

Tom,
Have had to edit your e-mail out of the post.
If you wish to promote this rather dubious passtime, look at our media kit and then the decision can be taken by admin as to whether it gets allowed.
Thanks.

Post by **lomuamart** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:45 pm

Lev,
You beat me to it by 2 mins.

Post by **Lev** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 2:53 pm

The spam alert started ringing

Post by **Guess** » Mon Aug 22, 2005 3:43 pm

Why do we get all the weirdos in Hua Hin.

Post by **bircow** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 1:23 am

Proably the 'eazy' life in HH. Some people can't take. Spending the time doing nothing but take care af your sole, heart and body is not easy for mental 'grey' people. Take the 1. guy on this thread. Crazy thing to come up with. Stay out of others people's deals. Show tolerance and admit that all falang's using this board know - or should know - 'the game'. As another board said long time ago, "you don't loose your girl, you only loose your turn"

Post by **Guess** » Wed Aug 24, 2005 7:01 am

Well said bircow in a strange manner.

If you find a strong branch hang on for dear life.

Post by **TomSpringall** » Sat Nov 26, 2005 6:25 pm

I said i'd do it free so it's not a service.
I just wanted to help anyone not make the same mistake i did with a bargirl from korat.
If someone had just helped me like this i'd have found out she was still working just in a different bar and screwing different men every night.
I Love you long time my ass. She was a rough issan skank so i should have know better than to wate my time with her. Live and learn i guess.

Post by **dr dave soul monsta** » Sat Nov 26, 2005 7:03 pm

Tom as you may have noticed you have had a few negative responses,
You obviously have a large amount of bitterness brewing inside you ,the path you are choosing to stroll upon could be a very dangerous one ,im not sure Hua Hin is ready for a detective service of any kind at this time ,
you need to look forward and stop dwelling on the past events ,also try not to paint all the ladies with the same brush this will only bring you more misery and loneliness you are in a country that is not your own, the rules of the game are not the same here.
Im sure you were well aware of this when you came here
Move on man there's more to life than dwelling on the past welcome to the statistics

Post by **bircow** » Sat Nov 26, 2005 11:19 pm

Clever words, dr. Dave.

Post by **Guess** » Sun Nov 27, 2005 4:31 am

dr dave soul monsta wrote:I'm not sure Hua Hin is ready for a detective service of any kind at this time.

Quite right but for novices to Thailand it could be of some use just to confirm their suspicions.

...try not to paint all the ladies with the same brush....

Of course not. Absolutely right. I have seen many aspects to relationships between Thai and Farang. Many of them, and I am sure that Dr. Dave agrees with me, are very positive.

...the rules of the game are not the same here..

Dave is, of course, right here. Their is a major cultural difference between farang and Thai. My approach is that, as I am living in a different country, then it is up to me to learn the culture and understand. Not the other way about.

Just to clarify why I responded to this post I will write about a situation that I am experiencing right now.

I recently met a very nice friendly guy from Sweden who has just split up with his wife, who has gone off with one of his friends. He is now going through the divorce process. He came to Thailand for the first time this month with the hope of meeting a new lady to compensate for his loss. He has made the classic mistake of falling for a bar girl. He returned to Sweden and sends SMS every day detailing his undying love. This information is discussed with many other bar girls and indeed anybody she can find who can read English.

He has agreed to send about 10,000 Baht every month. I know that this girl has been with at least six men since he returned to Sweden. My gut feeling was to get the phone number and issue him with a warning. I firstly discussed the situation with my wife and she said that she understood my dilemma but the poor girl has to earn a living somehow.

I had to, reluctantly, agree to keep quiet.

Perhaps I have been in Thailand too long or maybe I have not yet been here quite long enough.

Post by **johnnyk** » Sun Nov 27, 2005 5:29 am

TomSpringall wrote:I said i'd do it free so it's not a service.
I just wanted to help anyone not make the same mistake i did with a bargirl from korat.
If someone had just helped me like this i'd have found out she was still working just in a different bar and screwing different men every night.
I Love you long time my ass. She was a rough issan skank so i should have know better than to wate my time with her. Live and learn i guess.

"...rough issan skank..."
She was doing what she needs to do.
What was a fine, discriminating and well-traveled man like yourself doing then?
Blame yourself, Chief.

Post by **DrKnow** » Tue Dec 13, 2005 8:49 pm

TomSpringall wrote:I said i'd do it free so it's not a service.
I just wanted to help anyone not make the same mistake i did with a bargirl from korat.
If someone had just helped me like this i'd have found out she was still working just in a different bar and screwing different men every night.
I Love you long time my ass. She was a rough issan skank so i should have know better than to wate my time with her. Live and learn i guess.

Your over 21 me thinks, educated as well, should have known better. Take heart in knowing you are not the only sad twat that has done this. They are still walking hand in hand with them all over Thailand, even the soft lads that live here and should know better.

Spend some time and get a nice decent girl.