Is Internet Bashing a Sickness?

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Come on guys...MrP is the quintessential pot-stirrer and most of his posts are designed to be provocative to solicit responses.

What probably gets most folk is the dash of superciliousness he offers for the replies to his posts that are shown. :popcorn:

You are a generally organized poster MrP but are slightly naughty and cynical with many posts as they seem to be designed to just goad many folk on.

However, you seem to be able to ride the line fairly well as most of your posts skirt the 'edge of the envelope' without eliciting sanctions most of the time.....even if sometimes attracting the odd terse comments from forum wardens.

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Relax guys, old Plumers is just winding you all up again. It's how he gets his kicks. :twisted: Who is the Boss in Your House? poll was the last one.
Why any sane, well centered male, would feel the need to "be the master in the house" only shows a need to dominate their female partner. No mention of love, sharing decisions, respect, or any other emotions that make for a successful and lasting relationship. That's the way divorces start. :roll:

"They would not behave in such a way in the 'real' world, mainly because a 2x4 between the eyes tends to smart a little".
He has stated many times, that he will not engage in face to face discussion on subjects other than golf and other non controversial matters, I suspect, that is due to the fact that, yes, a 2x4 would hurt. Exactly, who would be the recipient of the pain, may however, be the real problem. :roll:

Just another wind up guys, as most of his posts are these days. But ya gotta love him for trying. :laugh:
Let him keep posting on his unresolved, innermost demons, after all, he has nothing else to offer us.
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^ Agreed, MrPlum is a professional troll and very good at what he does. He starts threads and submits posts to threads others have started just to get a reaction. I view him as a definite narcissist. However, I have found the occasional post in answer to someone's question helpful, so if he would stick to that behavior, I think he would be appreciated. Unfortunately, most of the threads he starts are written knowingly that an adverse reaction will follow. That is the very definition of an internet troll.

Sorry MrP, I know you've tried to help me with medical advice but like I said about Sandman staying out of politics and religion and sticking to what he knows (downloading illegal internet tv and movies) you would be better off answering questions that you can answer with confidence and proof. :cheers:
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richard wrote:I agree your quote is not 'bashing' and an honest question which should have been answered
You should know better than to be taken in with this old chestnut (long ago responded to), which has clearly been fed to him by another member. I have posted rarely on health matters in the last year, due to the ridiculous fuss created by the statin-addled.
hhfarang wrote:Unfortunately, most of the threads he starts are written knowingly that an adverse reaction will follow.
You jest. Do you think I have some masochistic need to be constantly abused by those who succumb to their worst impulses? This is just another way of saying 'he made me do it'. On the rare occasion I have been left alone, the subject is discussed civilly, with no fuss.

Other members have expressed similar views to mine. So I am hardly isolated. This cuts no ice with bashers due to their 'just one person' homo-erotic need. They cannot see anyone else, locked as they are, in their fixation.

TROLLING. One of the definitions of 'trolling' is to 'provoke an emotional response'. Well, my posts certainly do that, at least with those who lack emotional control. Yet, what do you think the mainstream media do? Day in day out. They sensationalize and write to get an emotional response. The dominant theme is fear.

If you want to be read, amongst the thousands of talking heads trying to get your attention, on a daily basis, then designing posts to be read, is common sense. If you want dry prose, go the library.

Others have their own way of getting the attention they crave. One way is shout and bellow and demand to be read. To use giant fonts, pretty colours and hide your writing deficiencies in a forest of juvenile dancing icons. Another is to hurl abuse in 'drive-by shootings. Another is to act like a Quality Control Inspector, picking others up for their literary or logical failings. It helps keep you smug and relevant, in your boring existence. Or simply be a pest. They will all claim to be the one who is rational but...

I certainly do not write to be chased around the forum by muggers bent on vandalism.

For years a small number of members have complained and complained and complained. They want the forum to be shaped to their particular tastes, to only allow their viewpoints, so their world stays cozy and comfortable. Reading about fishing and trips down Soi Bintabaht. If they stayed in those areas of the forum they would find the peace and tranquillity they desire. At least, that is the thinking. But no. They stray from the reservation and read and read and read, even when the option not to read is available to them. Their suffering is grievous. The noise they make is frightful. Their pain totally unnecessary. Ex-military 'medics on a boat' know this as a 'self-inflicted wound'.

While I may have been the key to unlocking their psychoses, I am not my brother's keeper. Bashers need to take responsibility for their own bad behaviour.
...you would be better off answering questions that you can answer with confidence and proof.
Better off? In what sense? Attracting the psychologically vulnerable naturally carries some risk. Thailand is a magnet for some very disturbed individuals. Will they take their hatred and obsession off the forum? I have already been told I am discussed.

As for proof. Information is no longer under the absolute control of the 'elites'. Whether junk science, media experts, flawed or manipulated studies or the lack of any studies at all, the proof we are presented with is no longer accepted, unchallenged. That can be tough for some people to cope with.

The internet has given us many different versions of events. Fighting this is a losing battle because the genie is already out of the bottle. I am not the first 'dissenter' nor will I be the last.
Bristolian wrote:MrP, this particular thread and the Opening post was clearly was in my opinion, intended to attract the responses already posted. Why would be my question? If the responses were so predictable for the most part and predictably negative towards you, why, why, why?
I initiated this topic for several reasons. To draw basher fire away from other topics, to cast light on the problem of internet bashers in general and to flag (as if it was necessary) the arrival of another 'basher'. This one a little more venal than others who have gone before.

I'm well aware such a topic would be quickly infested and that the 'Is Trolling a sickness?' topic or similar would be created in response. I have the malcontents on ignore, so don't pay them any attention.

I'm interested in comments from other forum members because looking ahead, balance in the forum should concern everyone. Now that a particularly venal newcomer has established his level, it is likely that more flaming and perhaps a solidification of the 'pack' will occur. Basher wannabes who were easily contained may now be emboldened to come out and play. The result is not going to be beneficial for the forum.

I have been on enough of them to know that cliques will always try to establish themselves and dominate. If they prevail then the forum is no longer a shining example of free speech but a place fit only for a particular sub-group and the thick-skinned. Hence my battles with SJ.

You are intelligent enough to understand.
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MrPlum wrote: I have the malcontents on ignore, so don't pay them any attention.
If that were true, there wouldn't be a problem, because you wouldn't be trying to put them down all the time.
You are intelligent enough to understand.
:laugh: You probably don't even realise you're doing it half the time!
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dtaai-maai wrote:
MrPlum wrote: I have the malcontents on ignore, so don't pay them any attention.
If that were true, there wouldn't be a problem, because you wouldn't be trying to put them down all the time.
You are intelligent enough to understand.
:laugh: You probably don't even realise you're doing it half the time!
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Caught him again......

Then he posted this on another thread this morning.......
Tsk! :tsk: Are you qualified?
You couldn't make it up........
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To be fair, I think that was intended to be ironic.
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dtaai-maai wrote:To be fair, I think that was intended to be ironic.
i would agree with you.....

If it wasn't such a serious matter.....

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dtaai-maai wrote:If that were true, there wouldn't be a problem, because you wouldn't be trying to put them down all the time.
Not all the time since I do not open all their posts. I have explained how I use this feature.

Memories are short. I took a year off responding to one member and it made absolutely no difference, except to encourage him. He flamed away, with no comeback, belligerently stating he would do so until his 'last dying breath'. The infamous 'drama queen' speech. Popping out every now and again, to deliver a cuff behind the ear, results in a reduction in childish enthusiasm, if not output.

Now, though, it has reached the level of absurdity.
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MrPlum wrote:Memories are short.
Indeed the are, unless distinct disdain for someone or something burns eternal from experience. However, the 'memories are short' comment I usually use for the locals, especially the girlies.
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MrPlum wrote:Memories are short. I took a year off responding to one member and it made absolutely no difference, except to encourage him. He flamed away, with no comeback, belligerently stating he would do so until his 'last dying breath'. The infamous 'drama queen' speech. Popping out every now and again, to deliver a cuff behind the ear, results in a reduction in childish enthusiasm, if not output.

Now, though, it has reached the level of
But!!! MrP you are encouraging the level of absurdity by some of your choices of threads and by the manner in which you divert other threads to some direction in which you feel it should develop. You appear to enjoy the challenge of the wind-up and then complain of a foul when you are challenged over the absurdity. It might actually help if you seriously answered questions addressed to you rather than handling the question in a smug or condescending manner.

You are intelligent enough to see this. :wink:
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Bristolian wrote:But!!! MrP you are encouraging the level of absurdity by some of your choices of threads and by the manner in which you divert other threads to some direction in which you feel it should develop.
Why should I alter my interests or behaviour when they do not breach forum rules and are increasingly mainstream? We are not talking 30' ft owls and alien invasions here. Although from the cries of agony, you would think it.

A previous member had a lot to do with sensitizing some of the older fogies, some of whom cannot forget. They refuse to see a distinction between extreme 'conspiracies' and systemic corporate/political/military mischief.

Your comment is yet another twist on the 'he made me do it' theme, which goes hand in hand with the 'he deserves it' theme or the 'he brings it on himself' theme or the 'shoot the messenger' theme. They are all weak excuses for abusive behaviour.
You appear to enjoy the challenge of the wind-up and then complain of a foul
This is just a regular ritual I go through which is always fruitless but fills an hour or two for both myself and other forum addicts. Everyone likes Punch and Judy.

Nothing will change because when it comes to human relations you are not dealing with logic. Most people know, at the level of the intellect, it is barmy to incessantly argue on a virtual forum. It is not real. It just feels real. Those with mental or emotional 'issues' clearly target people who offer them an outlet for all their pent up frustrations and inadequacies. Bashers, flamers, trolls. A thankless task, I should charge by the hour. :roll:

When a supposedly intelligent member states he will fight you until his last dying breath and has already been stuck to another member, like chewing gum, for 5 years, (way before you joined the forum), this is clearly absurd and indicative of mental illness. Or members complaining that Current Affairs is not Hua-Hin related, when it clearly states it is not supposed to be. Beats me.

I have learned over the years to keep an emotional distance from both the subject matter and my smitten admirers. Yes, I complain from time to time but not because they really bother me but because they turn topics into treacle, which is unfair to other members, whose own contributions get lost in the melee. Saner members are understandably deterred from posting. This, of course, is one of the aims of bashing.

Whether dealing with my regular output or basher input, it is a matter of degree. 75% of my posts would vanish if I didn't have to respond to the squishy-tomato throwers. Many might simply end up in the forum bone-yard, due to lack of interest.

Let's be honest though. Those who complain, clearly can't get enough of my posts. :idea:
Bristolian wrote:It might actually help if you seriously answered questions addressed to you rather than handling the question in a smug or condescending manner.
It depends on the question, how it is posed and the motives of the questioner. If a member is fishing for personal information that may be used maliciously, why would I provide it? If it is topic-related and I am under fire, I only have so much time and energy. Unfortunately those who make the most ludicrous or malicious responses, tend to draw the eye more than the quiet posters. That is part of the basher MO and is just as much 'trolling'. If basher 'noise' is preventing a member from being heard, they can always take it up with them.

As for being smug and condescending. The solution has always been simple. Talk to me civilly and I will respond in kind.

Turning into a deranged basher because your chemical weapon qualification is not being given the reverence your ego demands, is really just silly.
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If a post or thread from Mr.plum has more that 2 paragraphs I automatically click onto the next post. if he causes you so much distress just ignore him. Works for me. :cheers:
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plum asked
What's a rational discussion?
Ratsima replied
One based on fact rather than fear and loathing.
To show a lack of understanding of rational discussion, reflects in the style of his posts which are Agree with with me or I will start insulting you. prove me wrong and I will ignore your post.
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:clap: :clap: :agree: :agree: :golf: :golf: :golf:
which are Agree with with me or I will start insulting you. prove me wrong and I will ignore your post.
and we have done the whole gamut of insults and ignore have we not Lindosfan
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