Burger wrote:Hi Simon old chap,
No, I don't think I was
possibly making any judgements, as I wrote: "she
may be" and "she
might make the OP"
Not making judgements no, just suggesting possibilities.
Whereas you labelled him
Mr. Dipstick that's more of a 'judgement' to me, but I'm a bit thick like.
I Thought you were clevererererer than me, maybe you just borrowed those big words from Google ?
Cheers mate, it's all harmless banter hey.
Burger
Burger Buddy,
yea it is harmless banter but as redzone noted, you do have a sharp razor. but I got thick skin.
As to "dipstick" label, the OP was seeking advice on dipping his stick while girl friend was sleeping.
clevererer than you, amazing it should ever cross your mind.
on to other things This thread started about "cheating."
Burger, redzone and whomever: what say you? I'm asking for judgments, your personal opinion, your moral opinion: "cheating" how do you define it? What is it for you?
My take:
The traditional western/christian view is monogamy- one man-one woman. marriage vows- to forsake all others (sexually that is) If that are your agreement, anything on the side is cheating. But if you eschew, sorry, if you reject the traditional for what appears, statistically speaking to be the norm- more than 50% of both men and women say they have had extra-marital encounters- then you have made "cheating" an impossibility in your relationship because sexual fidelity is not one of your commitments.
Why commit to something that is stastically a "bad bet?" and usually is the catalyst for divorce. You set yourself up for failure. To paraphrase a Tom Robbin's character in "Another Roadside Attraction," "Why let a little squirt of strange semen ruin a good relationship."
Those who maintain the Christian ethic may say that what is often referred to as "open marriage" immoral. But do they consider a culture like muslim that allows 4 wives, i think, immoral? or moral because it has the sanction of a religious organization. Are polygamist Mormons immoral?
Are single guys who come to Thailand for "fun and games" immoral? Are the ladies who ply the trade, immoral?
If such is your judgment, do you descriminate against such persons? ie. make the decision that you do not associate with them or do you make the judgment that their actions are immoral by your standards but you live and let live. perhaps you judge them by how they treat people, ie with respect or just something to be used.
Please look at this as a little more harmless banter, Burger ol' chap. Hopefully interesting and enlightening harmless banter.
HHS
The devil made me do it the first time.
The second time I did it on my own.
When I finally got to the land of milk and honey, the milkman shot me
Happy wife, Happy life!