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by Soonn
Sun Jun 29, 2014 6:06 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

She went back to the bar because she had no money.

She had no money because I stopped taking care of her.

I stopped taking care of her because she's a liar.
by Soonn
Sun Jun 29, 2014 4:41 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

She's back in Thailand now. So am I. I don't think she ever expected me to live here.
by Soonn
Fri Jun 27, 2014 8:52 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

I just thought I'd give my last update on the situation. So far as the business elements of leaving the bar are concerned, everything holds true, however for my particular relationship at around the three month mark she turned evil and we broke up. I now live in Thailand (rather than Korea) and have...
by Soonn
Mon Feb 10, 2014 9:47 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

Update: She and I are both in Korea now and have been here for about a week. So far so good. We are happy. It's a bit cold for her tastes, but the point is she is here. We set up a Skype account in her name and got the unlimited calling plan so that she can call her friends and family every day for...
by Soonn
Sun Jan 19, 2014 4:14 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

So you are planning to take a country girl from Thai to Kor, she of course speaks no Korean and has no friends there. Sounds like a great plan. As with anyone moving to another country, it will be difficult. That's not to say though that she won't make new friends and learn Korean. She could also h...
by Soonn
Sun Jan 19, 2014 4:12 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

So you are planning to take a country girl from Thai to Kor, she of course speaks no Korean and has no friends there. Sounds like a great plan. Pretty much. To be fair she was more or less a loner in Bangkok as well. We are similar in that way (we both prefer solitary hobbies). She only had one fri...
by Soonn
Fri Jan 10, 2014 12:02 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

Update: So far so good. She really is back home in Surin. I sent her a smartphone so that we could share photos and chat on LINE. Now she's giving me all kinds of updates with pictures of family, random bugs in her mother's garden, and herself. It seems very likely that she's legit and will be comin...
by Soonn
Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:15 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

My situation for meeting my GF was a bit different from most guys who meet bar girls - I was doing research for a novel and nonfiction essay about sex work. I barfined a ton of girls just so I could interview them. Granted, I doubt the mamasan would be sad to see me come back even without the relea...
by Soonn
Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:45 pm
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

i took my girl from a bar in soi 80. i only paid 600 for bar fine. she stayed with me for 23 days. i asked her at the the end of my holiday how much she wanted in total. i was thinking between 25- 40 thousand baht. she only wanted 15,000 baht. i then asked her much i had to pay for her to leave and...
by Soonn
Mon Jan 06, 2014 11:48 am
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

The point is that, based on my current evidence (Granted she's not yet back in Korea with me - that's scheduled for three weeks from now). There are cases of people paying this, and then actually having the girl not going to work in the bar. Then again, it's also entirely possible that I'm being a ...
by Soonn
Mon Jan 06, 2014 11:28 am
Forum: After Dark
Topic: Leaving a bar
Replies: 135
Views: 28357

Re: Leaving a bar

This has been a good read. I'm glad that someone resurrected the thread a few months ago. I'm in a similar situation, except in Bangkok. I first met the girl about 4 months before I ever barfined her, and even then I only did it twice. Before I did, she spent literally hour long blocks chit chatting...